Police to get tough on internet trolls.
25-05-2023, 15:41
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Re: Police to get tough on internet trolls.
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Saying the words "just pull yourself together" never helped anyone
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Yup - it’s like saying about a broken leg "just walk it off…".
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25-05-2023, 16:02
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Re: Police to get tough on internet trolls.
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Saying the words "just pull yourself together" never helped anyone
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Nor has victimhood.
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25-05-2023, 16:05
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Re: Police to get tough on internet trolls.
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Originally Posted by Russ
Some people enjoy victim status. Others of us prefer to fight back. Live life on your feet or on your knees. Your call.
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As a Christian I'd say that living life on your knees seems like a really good option.
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25-05-2023, 16:09
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Re: Police to get tough on internet trolls.
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Originally Posted by Pierre
Nor has victimhood.
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What helps from others is understanding compassion and empathy
Judging those suffering as weak just makes you a compounding part of the problem
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25-05-2023, 16:16
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Re: Police to get tough on internet trolls.
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Originally Posted by Jaymoss
Saying the words "just pull yourself together" never helped anyone
Just saying
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Same as get a grip or man up really, how does that help anyone having an episode? They'd be better of not saying anything and just listening if that's the best they've got, that is assuming they actually want to help of course
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25-05-2023, 18:14
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Re: Police to get tough on internet trolls.
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Originally Posted by Jaymoss
Saying the words "just pull yourself together" never helped anyone
Just saying
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Totally agree.
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Originally Posted by Paul
Wow .... you really do live up to your name.
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Insults and talking riddles doesn't tend to work with neuro diverse people.
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Originally Posted by Jaymoss
What helps from others is understanding compassion and empathy
Judging those suffering as weak just makes you a compounding part of the problem
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Exactly.
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As a Christian I'd say that living life on your knees seems like a really good option.
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Love it.
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25-05-2023, 18:50
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Re: Police to get tough on internet trolls.
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What helps from others is understanding compassion and empathy
Judging those suffering as weak just makes you a compounding part of the problem
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You can be empathetic, compassionate and be not viewing those suffering as weak. But also the only person that can make the change is you (with support from others …great, but it’s still you).
The victim mentality that it’s all the worlds fault that you’re in the situation you’re in (or anyone’s fault other than you) absolves you of any agency to sort yourself out.
Sometimes telling someone to sort themselves out, can be the compassionate, supportive and loving thing to do.
I can help someone, but I can’t help someone who won’t help themselves.
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Same as get a grip or man up really, how does that help anyone having an episode? They'd be better of not saying anything and just listening if that's the best they've got, that is assuming they actually want to help of course
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Not in the snap of the moment, no, not helpful. But long term that has to be faced up.
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25-05-2023, 19:08
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Re: Police to get tough on internet trolls.
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Originally Posted by Pierre
You can be empathetic, compassionate and be not viewing those suffering as weak. But also the only person that can make the change is you (with support from others …great, but it’s still you).
The victim mentality that it’s all the worlds fault that you’re in the situation you’re in (or anyone’s fault other than you) absolves you of any agency to sort yourself out.
Sometimes telling someone to sort themselves out, can be the compassionate, supportive and loving thing to do.
I can help someone, but I can’t help someone who won’t help themselves.
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Not in the snap of the moment, no, not helpful. But long term that has to be faced up.
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So it is my fault I suffered a brain disease when I was 6 nice
You Sir have just shown the fact the vast majority have very little understanding of mental health issues
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25-05-2023, 19:27
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Re: Police to get tough on internet trolls.
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So it is my fault I suffered a brain disease when I was 6 nice
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I don’t know you. As usual people personalise a broader discussion to shut it down.
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You Sir have just shown the fact the vast majority have very little understanding of mental health issues
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You sir, have just refused to further the discussion.
I don’t know your personal circumstances, but I assume whatever your issues and difficulties it is you that drives yourself to battle through your impediments. You will no doubt have bad days, as we all do, but I’m assuming you have agency over your life.
Or are you totally at the behest of others and unable function in anything in life unless someone does it for you?
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25-05-2023, 19:39
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Re: Police to get tough on internet trolls.
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I don’t know you. As usual people personalise a broader discussion to shut it down.
You sir, have just refused to further the discussion.
I don’t know your personal circumstances, but I assume whatever your issues and difficulties it is you that drives yourself to battle through your impediments. You will no doubt have bad days, as we all do, but I’m assuming you have agency over your life.
Or are you totally at the behest of others and unable function in anything in life unless someone does it for you?
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I do not have agency over how my brain effects my psychology no matter how hard I try to keep it together.
Some mental health issues are biological so no one has control over them. Prime example is Bipolar which is said to be genetic. So no matter how loving you might be telling a sufferer to pull themselves together will do nothing other than alienate you from them. See lack of understanding
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We are not talking standard anxiety like you worry how big your phone bill is here or when you tell your friends oh I am depressed cuz Arsenal threw the championship away (not you you but in general)
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26-05-2023, 03:24
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Re: Police to get tough on internet trolls.
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Originally Posted by RichardCoulter
Insults and talking riddles doesn't tend to work with neuro diverse people.
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Your reply shows you understood it perfectly.
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26-05-2023, 12:19
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Re: Police to get tough on internet trolls.
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You now need to work on your incorrect assumptions and beliefs about other disabled people, particularly how their disabilities affect them.
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And you need to work on minding your own business as well as ending your cock-eyed belief that you're some sort of expert on other peoples' conditions.
In short - stay in your own lane pal.
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26-05-2023, 16:04
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Re: Police to get tough on internet trolls.
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Originally Posted by Russ
And you need to work on minding your own business as well as ending your cock-eyed belief that you're some sort of expert on other peoples' conditions.
In short - stay in your own lane pal.
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I was genuinely congratulating you because you now appear to have accepted that your conditions do affect you after all, which is contrary to what you used to claim, but you've taken it the wrong way.
I must stress that I don't blame you personally for this. One of the traits of those with Aspergers/autism is poor social skills which can cause those affected to get hold of the wrong end of the stick. Communicating via the written word doesn't help either.
You are very likely to genuinely believe what you say rather than deliberately being unpleasant. It's the fault of your learning difficulties not you.
Take care of yourself.
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26-05-2023, 18:27
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Re: Police to get tough on internet trolls.
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Originally Posted by RichardCoulter
I was genuinely congratulating you because you now appear to have accepted that your conditions do affect you after all, which is contrary to what you used to claim, but you've taken it the wrong way.
I must stress that I don't blame you personally for this. One of the traits of those with Aspergers/autism is poor social skills which can cause those affected to get hold of the wrong end of the stick. Communicating via the written word doesn't help either.
You are very likely to genuinely believe what you say rather than deliberately being unpleasant. It's the fault of your learning difficulties not you.
Take care of yourself.
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Richard please put down your spade, if you dig yourself any deeper into your hole you will never be able to climb out.
You are the one who is being unpleasant and also being very condescending. You appear to think you know Russ but your comments about him are so off the mark as to be laughable!
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26-05-2023, 18:39
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Re: Police to get tough on internet trolls.
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Richard please put down your spade, if you dig yourself any deeper into your hole you will never be able to climb out.
You are the one who is being unpleasant and also being very condescending. You appear to think you know Russ but your comments about him are so off the mark as to be laughable!
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Sounds extremely painful...
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