@ Jo Thank you and already done although D did look at me rather strangely when I said that's a gentle hug from Jo, then the penny dropped and he said Jo from your forum
@ nash yes going private may be worth considering if D needs an operation although naturally, I'm hoping that with the right meds and Physio he can avoid the need of this.
The trouble with D is he is not the type of man who sits around he is alway's doing something or helping someone with something and being laid up is just as frustrating for him as being in pain.
The good news is our eldest is working locally this week which is good from our point of view as last week he was away for a couple of day's, with our eldest working locally he can help with the little things like picking up my Dad's laundry and returning it as he works in the same town where my Dad lives and that will be a huge help to me atm.